Be a freelancer, start a business, or work in a workplace someone else owns?

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Eileen
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I got pretty upset when I read this:  http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/aspergers-diary/201107/15-ways-exclu...

The author said nothing wrong, because for me all points were true or highly similar to what I have experienced.  The socially strong win. 

I am not going to get angry when I have really had tears about the work "environment" thing.  The article says some of it:  http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/aspergers-diary/201107/15-ways-exclu...

I chose to start my own business so I could create an environment I can thrive in.  My staff know I am on the spectrum, so they accommodate and I, in turn, accommmodate them. 

~Eileen.

Eileen Parker My autism/sensory blog: http://www.eileenparker.com  For sleep, I have adult weighted blankets at Cozy Calm http://www.cozycalm.com

Sharon
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Hi Eileen, I read Lynne Soraya's post over on Psychology Today.  She did a good job writing it from the perspective of employers who are alienating ASD employees.  Lynne is on the spectrum as well, and she has a good understanding of spectrum challenges which many on the spectrum face from uncompromising employers.  

(btw) YOU have an awesome business, and have done fantastic! Smile

Eileen
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I hadn't realized that Lynne is on the spectrum. 

Thank you for the compliment about my business.  It makes me feel good!

I hope you had a good long weekend,

~Eileen.

Eileen Parker My autism/sensory blog: http://www.eileenparker.com  For sleep, I have adult weighted blankets at Cozy Calm http://www.cozycalm.com

Lori
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Thanks for the link. Glad to hear you are doing so well! I started my own business for the same reason you did. It has taken many years, but it is finally paying off. I was never able to hold a "regular" job for very long, but I am able to do very well when I make my own schedule and choose my own work environment. Hardest challenge for me is the "business" end of running a business because my skills are all technical.

Most employers (and employees for that matter) have no idea what it is like to see the world in a different way and to not understand things that other people don't even need to think about. It would be great if we could all just employ each other!

Eileen
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The business end drives me bonkers too.  I tend to focus on production and marketing.  I so want to hire someone to take over much of what I do on the business end, and I know who that will be.  Soooooon!

 

Eileen Parker My autism/sensory blog: http://www.eileenparker.com  For sleep, I have adult weighted blankets at Cozy Calm http://www.cozycalm.com