cruhes on 2 guys?
I have a crush on 2 guys both of them i have know for a few years now guy one I will call H. I have had a few of my college classes with H and one time he asked me out. anyhow i was a bit surprised and took awhile to answer. so he took it as a no. We have stayed good friends however he has a girlfriend now. I still think the he likes me. He is always making a compliment on my hair and how i look an he likes to hug me. anyhow I can really flirt back since he has a Gf.Guy 2 is single however i dont think he wants a relationship and this point also he form what I can tell does not like me other than a friend. I will call Him G. everyone tells me i should be honest with G and say I like him but I am not that brave. I am meeting him this week for lunch. the other is with G is that he is quite religious and I am not however he seems like he is pretty tolerant of others views. He has tried to turn me on to Jesus yet. anyhow i really like both of them and would like to her some of your thoughts. Both guys are Nt. I have explained my As to both of them a little.
I dont know how to flirt. I am not going to tell him how I feel about him I would rather have him as a good friend rather then make things awkward. I am seeing G again next week. I hope someday him and I progress to being more than friends but for now I will settle for him being a good friend.
I would focus on the second guy, G, for now, since you said the first one already has a girlfriend. Flirt with him if you want, but don't be too flat-out about it. If you straight-out tell him you like him you risk putting him in an awkward situation since you mentioned he may not want to date right now.
I would practice small talk with him. Ask him what he did for Easter, that kind of thing. The more comfortable he is being your friend, the better. You can always use another good friend even if it never goes beyond that.