I am a 50 year old woman with Aspergers living in scotland who wasn't diagnosed until the age of 44. I went through an awful lot of work related stress and confusion with bullying thrown in as well. Now I no longer work and try to make up for all that stress by attempting to be happy as much as I can. It's difficult though and the older I get the more difficult it becomes to find friends who I like and get on well with.